Thursday, May 21, 2026

A Maker's Thought

It's been a while since I've share a post like this, but something happened last weekend that I don't want to forget. Plus, it serves as a very good reminder that our gift of making is something pretty special, and being able to share that beyond ourselves is worth the risk.

So remember those green potholders I shared a few weeks ago?


I made them to be able to write a tutorial on how I make scrappy potholders, and at the start, I didn't really have an idea of an eventual recipient. But for some reason, as I was making them, it came to me who I wanted to give them to. There's a server at a local restaurant that I visit fairly often. Usually it's mom and I or hubby and I, but whatever, she sees us coming and welcomes us in. We chat about our week and no matter the day, she makes us laugh, serves us well, and makes us glad we came.

So just before the last time hubby and I were headed there, I whipped up a gift bag and popped the potholders in. I can't say I didn't question whether taking the gift to her was a good idea. I mean, I've never taken a gift to a restaurant server before. But I just wanted to show our deep appreciation for the joy she adds to our visits.


After our order had been placed, I told her I'd made her something. She pulled up a chair to open the gift bag, peeked in, and wouldn't you know? She nearly cried. That there were potholders in the bag was meaningful to her. That they were handmade was meaningful to her. She thanked me over and over again. 

All this to say, if sharing one of your handmades crosses your mind, just do it. Risk feeling foolish. Risk an apathetic reaction. Because there's a good chance you'll experience what I did.... sincere appreciation from the recipient, and a personal gratefulness for your own giftedness as a maker.

11 comments:

  1. What a lovely, lovely gesture on your part, Debbie! And what a lovely, heart-warming response! I think it's the little things like this that make life special. And there's no doubt that a gift MADE and given to someone who isn't a maker is often the most cherished. Your gift is wonderful - I adore your pot holders - and her response is perfect. Doesn't this experience make you want to gift something to everyone who's been nice? I know you made her day, and many more days to come as she thinks of you when she uses the pot holders. Kudos to you for doing this.

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  2. What a lovely story all around.

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    1. I'm glad I decided to share. It made my day!

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  3. This is the absolute sweetest. I'm so grateful you shared that story here; absolutely brought tears to my eyes. This kindness and that you remembered someone else's kindness, and put in effort to recognize it, is so so lovely. Thank you.

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    1. You are so welcome. It was a bright spot in my week, for sure.

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  4. Yes, a wonderful way to show your appreciation, and her response was equally rewarding. Funny you should mention this... our new neighbours have just had a baby, and I was tossing up about gifting a little quilt. We don't know them well at all, but each interaction has been delightful, especially when mum introduced us to the new baby this week. Note to self ... just do it Linda!

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    1. YES. It definitely sounds like you should do it. I bet it would really be appreciated.

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  5. It sounds like these potholders found the perfect home!! I'm glad you went with your instincts and that she will have these as a reminder of how much she means to others - what a beautiful gift to have been able to gift her.

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  6. Bless you -- for your act of kindness to the server and to suggesting this to us (well, me at least).

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  7. What a nice thing to do, and one that brings joy to her, and to you. A good reminder to follow those little nudges we get and share kindness with others.

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  8. Super wonderful, thanks for sharing Debbie.

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